消极向生

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2018年12月31日
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消极向生

哲学在日常最通俗的应用,就是各种人生观。

《轮回派对》里,在经历循环死亡的女主的心理医生问她,为何她不像小时候那样积极向生。女主沉默,大部分成年人应该都明白这种沉默。
小时候的我们,哪知道这接下来的成年人生有多艰难。
前几日,博士圈发了个微博,问如果人生可以重来,你会做什么样的改变呢?最高赞的一条回复写着,如果可以重来,我会选择不出生。
我从小不是一个积极向生的人,直白地说,求生欲很弱。但这并不意味着,我不热爱生活。
毕竟,人生从一开始,就是一场奔向死亡的赛跑,我们用一声啼哭,为自己鸣那起跑枪,what really counts的,并不是跑的速度和时长。
因为知道人生有尽头,所以才会更努力地去过每一天。待百年之时,不至于有太多惋惜。到了生死关头,便也不会挣扎贪生、留恋人间,因为心满意足、此生无憾。

年后一直在跑医院,调整了自己的作息和饮食习惯。每天按照营养大夫的食谱吃,11点前睡觉,7、8点起床。简直可以说,接近了禁欲。而我愿意也能坚持下去的一大原因,是我为所欲为过的这些时光,对这一生而言,已经心满意足。
我心里明白,这一切,并不是积极为了自己活得更久,而是让自己在这有限的人生里,活得更好、更有话语权。

认清了生活,仍旧热爱它,并不一定就是英雄,更多的,可能只是生而为人的,那一点点责任感。
生命可贵,珍惜它的方式,不是求取或者眷留,而是别浪费。

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